Single Life On Valentine's Day

"Single Life On Valentine's Day"

                           Normally I spend most of my time as an advocate for online dating, declaring that it is the best possible way to meet women these days. And while I do believe this to be true, this Valentine's Day will be one of the few times of the year where I strongly encourage every man to power down that computer, get our there, and make magic happen the old fashioned way. You guys know what I'm talking about; the ancient notion of meeting girls at a bar. 
                          Valentine's Day is the best possible night to get out there and look for women. Any woman who is without a guy will clearly be single, and in the mood to meet that special someone. So let's take a look at a few tips on how to be successful with meeting women in the real world.

1. Be interesting. 

    Above all, we need to stay interesting at all times. When men approach women and spew out the same boring cliche questions, women lose interest fast. Try to pick unique topics and ask questions that most men don't normally ask. It is in your best interest to arrive armed with plenty of fun questions and conversation topics to keep things at an emotional high. If you ever find yourself asking, "so what do you do for a living," because you can't think of anything else to say, you are probably blowing it! These are questions that often lead to, "I have to use the bathroom", followed by a woman who never returns.

2. Monitor your body language. 

Online dating is easy. There is no face-to-face rejection so our nerves never come into play. In real life, women will be watching our every move. 

Rocking back and forth, fidgeting, slouching, and constantly touching our face, will all indicate that we are very nervous. This will be a turn-off to the women we are speaking to, and will show that we may not have much confidence. 

Get into the habit of taking control of your body. If any of these habits come up, make the conscious effort to dead them immediately. The more confident our bodies appear, the more success that we will have. 

3. Make jokes about Valentine's Day. 

  Both of you and the women you are pursuing will have one thing in common; being single on Valentine's Day. So use it as a tool to make conversation. 

Just walk up to a group of women and jokingly say, "So which one of you ladies has had the most experience dating jerks?" Then just work from there and let the opening work its magic as everyone tells there favorite bad date stories. Be prepared to have some of your own funny stories to share as well.

This will not only provoke great conversation, but can transition to plenty of other dating topics to discuss. It's a win-win on all levels.