True Love Story In Hindi

"True Love Story"

Viv & Roze

Baar 1 Ladka 1 Ladki Se BahUt Pyar Karta Tha. 

Lekin Uski 1 Bahut buri Aadat Thi Ki Wo Bad Words Bahut use Karta Tha. 

Ladki Bhi Use Bahut Pasand Karti Thi But Uske Ghar Waale Us Ladke Ko Pasand Nahi Karte The. Kyuki Use Bolne Ki Tameez Nahi thi. 

1 Baar Us Ladke Ne Ladki Ko Kaha :- " I Love You" 

Tabhi Us Ladki Ke Papa Ka Phone Aaya. 

Papa :- "kaha ho, usi ladke ke paas hogi. kitni baar bola hai ki us ladke se door hi raha karo" 

Ye Kehkar uske papa ne call kaat diya. 

Tab us ladki ne bola ki I love too But ... 

Ladka Samjh gya aur waha se chala gya. 

Ladke Ki Local studies Puri ho chuki thi Is liye use further studies ke liye out to country jaana tha. 

Next Day Wo ladki ke paas gya aur usse bola :- "i Know, tumhare papa mujhe kyu nahi pasand karte. magar ab mai sudhar jaunga."

... Khush Hui aur usne ladke ko uske papa se baat karne ko bola. 

Ladka ladki ke papa ke paas gya aur unse wada kiya ki wo achcha ban jaayega. 

Ladke ke gharwalo ki sehmati par jaane se 
Pahle ladke ki us ladki se sagai kar di. 
Dono ne 1 dusre ko ring pehnayi 

wo ladka chala gya magar waha wo daily use call karta, use message karta. aur pyar bhari baate karta. 

Magar 1 Din, wo ladki apne Mom-dad ke saath ghar wapis aa rahi thi tabhi 1 car ne un teeno ko takkar maar di. 

Thodi der baad ladki ne dekha ki uske mom dad dard se chilla rahe the. wo kuchh karne chahti thi magar use bhi kaafi chote aai thi.

 

Use Hospitalized kiya gya. waha doctor ne btaya ki accident ki wajah se ladki ne apni aawaj kho di hai aur wo ab kabhi bol 
Nahi sakti. ladki ko is baat se bahut jyada sama lga. 
Use Ghar laya gya. 

Ladke ke call pe call aaye. 
Message pe message, magar us ladki ne naa call aur naa hi sms ka reply diya. 

Wo Use Dukhi nahi karna chahti thi. 
UsNe Us Ladke Ko Letter Likha Ki wo use bhool jaaye. wo ab usse pyar nahi karti. aur usne letter ke saath sagai waali ring bhi saath wapis bhej di. 

Wo ab bahut dukhi rahne lagi aur raat din rone lagi. 

Use ghar waalo ne socha ki shayad ye jagah chhod de to wo use bhool jaayegi. 

ye sochkar unhone apne flat change kar diya aur new jagah shift ho gaye. 

Wahan wo ladki Sign Language (isharo ki bhasha) sikh gai aur wo apne dad ko daily kehti ki usne usko bhoola diya.

Use ghar waalo ne socha ki shayad ye jagah chhod de to wo use bhool jaayegi. 

ye sochkar unhone apne flat change kar diya aur new jagah shift ho gaye. 

Wahan wo ladki Sign Language (isharo ki bhasha) sikh gai aur wo apne dad ko daily kehti ki usne usko bhoola diya. 

Kuchh dino baad us ladke ka dost us ladki ke paas aaaya aur usse bola ki wo tumse milna chahata hai. 

Ladke Ne 1 khat pe likh kar uske dost ko kaha ki wo us ladke ko kabhi nahi btaye ki mai kaha hu, aur mai ab bol nahi sakti. 

Ye Sunkar us ladke ka dost wahan se chala gya. 

2-3 Years baad us ladke Ka Wo hi dost apne haath me 1 card lekar waha aaya. 
Usne Us ladki ko wo card dete huye bola ki :- 
"Wo ab shaadi kar raha hai" 

Ladke Ne Dukhi man se wo card khola aur dekha ki Dulhan ki jagah uska khud ka name likha tha. 

Usne wapis upar dekha to waha wo ladka (uska lover) bhi khada tha. 

Usne Use Isharo me samjhaya ki "In 2-3 years me usne bhi kewal isharo ki bhasha sikhi isliye aane me late ho gya. ab tum jaise bologi, waise hi mai bolunga" 

Ye sunkar ladki ki aankho me aansu aa gye aur usne ladke ko gale laga liya. 

To Frnd ye thi Silence love ki story with 

                      "H-A-P-P-Y E-N-D-I-N-G"

"The Importance Of A Sister"

A sister is someone who loves you from the heart,
No matter how much you argue you cannot be drawn apart.
She is a joy that cannot be taken away,
Once she enters your life, she is there to stay.

A friend who helps you through difficult times,

Her comforting words are worth much more than dimes.

A partner who fills your life with laughs and smile,

These memories last for miles and miles.

When she is by your side, the world is filled with life,
When she is not around, your days are full of strife.
A sister is a blessing, who fills your heart with love,
She flies with you in life with the beauty of a dove.

A companion to whom you can express your feelings,

She doesn't let you get bored at family dealings.

Whether you are having your ups or downs,

She always helps you with a smile and never frowns.

With a sister you cannot have a grudge,
She is as sweet as chocolate and as smooth as fudge.
Having a sister is not just a trend,
It is knowing you can always turn to her, your best friend.

Brother Love

"My Sweat Family"

~ Brother Love ~

My father used to play with my brother and me in the yard. Mother would come out and say, "You're tearing up the grass." "We're not raising grass," Dad would reply. "We're raising boys."

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~ Brother Love ~

Never make a companion equal to a brother.

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~ Brother Love ~

One can be a brother only in something. Where there is no tie that binds men, men are not united but merely lined up.

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~ Brother Love ~

Our brothers and sisters are there with us from the dawn of our personal stories to the inevitable dusk.

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~ Brother Love ~

Our siblings push buttons that cast us in roles we felt sure we had let go of long ago - the baby, the peacekeeper, the caretaker, the avoid er ... It doesn't seem to matter how much time has elapsed or how far we've traveled.

~ Brother Love ~

Our siblings. They resemble us just enough to make all their differences confusing, and no matter what we choose to make of this, we are cast in relation to them our whole lives long.

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~ Brother Love ~

Respect rises up so far abov
The pettiness of separate view
Differences bow b4 a luv
And friendship tht iz blood-bound, too.
You r my brother and I love you!!!

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~ Brother Love ~

Row, brothers, row, the stream runs fast, The rapids are near, and the daylight's past. ~ VIVEK BOPCHE

 ~Brother Love ~

I am your brother
Your Best friend forever..
Singing the songs
The music that you like
We're brothers til the end of time
Together or not
You're always in my heart
Your hurting feelings...
In you will reign no more.

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~Brother Love ~

Brothers don't necessarily have to say anything to each other - they can sit in a room and be together and just be completely comfortable with each other. ~ Leonardo dicaprio

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~Brother Love ~

Caring brother like you is more then a friend and lover

~ Brother Love ~

Children of the same family, the same blood, with the same first associations and habits, have some means of enjoyment in their power, which no subsequent connections can supply...

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~ Brother Love ~

Community cannot for long feed on itself; it can only flourish with the coming of others from beyond, their unknown and undiscovered brothers. ~ Howard Thurman

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~ Brother Love ~

Dear brother
No matter
Where u are!
I want u 2 know u are special 2 us
And will alwaz be in our thoughts!

"Stages of a Friendship"

So here are five stages that I've identified so far.  I’d love your input on whether you think this helps capture the process?  What stage am I missing? What has been your experience, over the long-haul with your friendship development?

Curiosity : 

This is where every friendship begins.  There has to be something that attracts you, gives you a sense of willingness and increases your desire to have more. It doesn't have to be conscious or obvious to us, but at this stage we have to have reason to lean in, even a little, if the stranger we’re meeting is going to have a chance of becoming a friend.

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Familiarity : This is the stage we often want as stage one.     We frequently want to experience this comfort level with someone upon first meeting them, forgetting that it takes time to build.  In my experience, I find that it takes most women 6-8 times with someone before they reach this stage.  Of course that depends on what you’re doing during that time and how you’re sharing, but at some point you reach this familiarity.  A trust that you can assume she wants to talk with you when you call.  An ease where you’re okay just hanging out spontaneously together without it taking two weeks to schedule.  A sense that you are beginning to be able to predict how they will respond to different life events.

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Exploratory. Every potential friendship requires time together.  For some of us, that time happens automatically (at a play group, a choir rehearsal, yoga class or work), but for many of us, we’ll have to initiate it and pursue it.  For it doesn’t matter how much attraction you may feel in that first stage– if you don’t show up for time together– a friendship it will never become.

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Vulnerability : This stage is tricky since there is a ditch on either side: rushing to it too quickly or avoiding it all together.  Some women rush to this stage early on because they feel closer once they have shared their pain.  But healthy friendships need the commitment to grow in conjunction with the intimacy. We should not be emotionally vomiting on someone in order to feel closer.  It should not be our expectation that friends who are in the first couple of stages need to prove themselves and be there for us in extreme ways.

On the other hand, at some point of consistent time together, if you’re not willing to share beyond your PR image, laugh at yourself and express insecurities– the friendship will stall or disintegrate.  This is where we earn the right to “cry on each others shoulder.”   This is where we are bonding in deeper ways, increasing our commitment to each other.
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Vulnerability : This stage is tricky since there is a ditch on either side: rushing to it too quickly or avoiding it all together.  Some women rush to this stage early on because they feel closer once they have shared their pain.  But healthy friendships need the commitment to grow in conjunction with the intimacy. We should not be emotionally vomiting on someone in order to feel closer.  It should not be our expectation that friends who are in the first couple of stages need to prove themselves and be there for us in extreme ways.

On the other hand, at some point of consistent time together, if you’re not willing to share beyond your PR image, laugh at yourself and express insecurities– the friendship will stall or disintegrate.  This is where we earn the right to “cry on each others shoulder.”   This is where we are bonding in deeper ways, increasing our commitment to each other.
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1. Frientimacy : This last stage is for those who are your BFFs.  And notice that I made that plural.     Best doesn't speak to quantity as much as quality. It’s like when a magazine says “Best moments of last year” and lists ten.  There is enough research out there to suggest we need between 3-7 people in this category. Don’t limit yourself.  On the other hand, not everyone you interact with needs to move into this last stage.
This Friendship Intimacy stage is my category for the people I trust implicitly.  We trust each others boundaries, have proven to show up as emotionally healthy people for each other and are willing to go out of our way for their benefit.  We love them.  This stage takes time.  Lots of it. For most of us, while you may see the potential and some of the benefits of it 6-12 months into the relationship, it may take even longer than that to really build the required trust and intimacy.
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"Heart Touching Love Story"

V & R

There was a blind girl who was filled with animosity and despised the world. 

She didn't have many friends, just a boyfriend who loved her deeply, like no one else. 

She always used to say that she'd marry him if she could see him. Suddenly, one day someone donated her a pair of eyes… 

And that's when she finally saw her boyfriend… 

She was astonished to see that her boyfriend too was blind… 

He told her, "You can see me now, can we get married?" 

She replied, "And do what? We'd never be happy. I have my eye sight now, but you're still blind. It won't work out, I'm sorry." 

With a tear in his eye and a smile on his face, he meekly said, "I understand. I just want you to always be happy. Take care of yourself, and my eyes." 

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"A way of Love"

V & R

There was once this guy who is very much in love with his girl. This 

romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of paper-cranes as a gift to his girl. 

 Although, at that time he was just a small fry in his company, his future 

doesn't seemed too bright, they were very happy together. Until one day, 

his girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back. 

She also told him that she couldn't visualize any future for the both of 

them, so let's go their own ways there and then ...Heartbroken, the guy 

agreed. But when he regains his confidence, he worked hard day and night, 

slogging his body and mind just to make something out of him. 

Finally with all these hard work and the help of friends, this guy had set 

up his own company. You never fail until you stop trying one rainy day, 

while this guy was driving; he saw an elderly couple sharing an umbrella 

the rain walking to some destination. 

Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched. It didn't take him 

long to realize those were his girl's parents. With a heart in getting back 

at them, he droved slowly beside the couple, wanting them to 

spot him in his luxury sedan. 

He wanted them to know that he wasn't the same anymore; he had his own 

company, car, comfort etc. He made it! Before the guy can realize, the 

couple was walking towards a cemetery, and he got out of his car and 

followed.... and he saw his girl, a photograph of her smiling sweetly as 

ever at him from her tombstone... and he saw his paper cranes beside her. 

 Find time to realize that there is one person who means so much to you, 

for you might wake up one morning losing that person who you thought meant 

nothing to you Her parents saw him. He asks them why had this happened. 

 They explained, she did not leave for France at all. She was ill with 

cancer. 

She had believed that he will make it someday, but she did not want to be 

his obstacle ..... therefore she had choose to leave him ... 

Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't 

mean they don't love you with all they have She had wanted her parents to 

put his paper cranes beside her, because, if the day comes when fate brings 

him to her again he can take some of those back with him ... 

Once you have loved, you will always love. For what's in your mind may 

escape but what's in your heart will remain forever 

The guy just wept ..... The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting 

right 

beside them knowing you can't have them 

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What is love? Five theories on the greatest emotion of all

"What is love? Five theories on the greatest emotion of all"

"What is love" was the most searched phrase on www.Vivekroshini.blogspot.in, according to the company. In an attempt to get to the bottom of the question once and for all, the Guardian has gathered writers from the fields of science, psychotherapy, literature, religion and philosophy to give their definition of the much-pondered word"

The physicist: 'Love is chemistry'

Biologically, love is a powerful neurological condition like hunger or thirst, only more permanent. We talk about love being blind or unconditional, in the sense that we have no control over it. But then, that is not so surprising since love is basically chemistry. While lust is a temporary passionate sexual desire involving the increased release of chemicals such as testosterone and oestrogen, in true love, or attachment and bonding, the brain can release a whole set of chemicals: pheromones, dopamine, norepinephrine, serotonin, oxytocin and vasopressin. However, from an evolutionary perspective, love can be viewed as a survival tool – a mechanism we have evolved to promote long-term relationships, mutual defence and parental support of children and to promote feelings of safety and security.

The psychotherapist: 'Love has many guises

Unlike us, the ancients did not lump all the various emotions that we label "love" under the one word. They had several variations, including:

Philia which they saw as a deep but usually non-sexual intimacy between close friends and family members or as a deep bond forged by soldiers as they fought alongside each other in battle. Ludus describes a more playful affection found in fooling around or flirting. Pragma is the mature love that develops over a long period of time between long-term couples and involves actively practising goodwill, commitment, compromise and understanding. Agape is a more generalised love, it's not about exclusivity but about love for all of humanity. Philautia is self love, which isn't as selfish as it sounds. As Aristotle discovered and as any psychotherapist will tell you, in order to care for others you need to be able to care about yourself. Last, and probably least even though it causes the most trouble, eros is about sexual passion and desire. Unless it morphs into philia and/or pragma, eros will burn itself out.

Love is all of the above. But is it possibly unrealistic to expect to experience all six types with only one person. This is why family and community are important.

The philosopher: 'Love is a passionate commitment'

The answer remains elusive in part because love is not one thing. Love for parents, partners, children, country, neighbour, God and so on all have different qualities. Each has its variants – blind, one-sided, tragic, steadfast, fickle, reciprocated, misguided, unconditional. At its best, however, all love is a kind a passionate commitment that we nurture and develop, even though it usually arrives in our lives unbidden. That's why it is more than just a powerful feeling. Without the commitment, it is mere infatuation. Without the passion, it is mere dedication. Without nurturing, even the best can wither and die.

V & R

Low income couples marrying less and divorcing more

"Low income couples marrying less and divorcing more"

The new research suggests that government initiatives to strengthen marriage among low-income populations should move beyond promoting the value of marriage and instead focus on the actual problems that low-income couples face.

The study, which analysed results from a survey of 6,012 people, was carried out by Dr Thomas Trail and Dr Benjamin Karney from the University of California Los Angeles.

Although previous research has shown that divorce rates are higher and marriage rates are lower among low-income populations in the US, the researchers found that on most measures low-income respondents held more traditional views towards marriage than respondents on higher incomes.

Although low-income and high-income respondents reported similar romantic standards and similar problems with relationship processes such as communication, low-income respondents were more likely than affluent couples to report that their romantic relationships were negatively affected by economic and social issues such as money problems, drinking and drug use.

“Over the past 15 years, efforts to tackle declining marriage rates and increasing divorce rates among low-income couples in the USA have been guided by assumptions about why there are fewer low-income marriages and why a higher percentage fail,” Trail said.

“The aim of our study was to separate the myth from the reality,” he said.

Previous research has focused on specific low-income groups including unmarried mothers and cohabiting couples with children.

This study is the first to use a comprehensive survey to compare the attitudes and experiences of people from a range of incomes, and the findings provide important new information about how similar people with low- and high-incomes are in their values, standards, and experiences of marriage.

The researchers solicited the views of a stratified random sample of 4,508 Florida residents, with smaller random samples from California (500), Texas (502) and New York (502).

66 percent of the respondents were female, 53 percent were married and 61 percent were white.

A further 14 percent were Black and 19 percent were from non-White or Black Latino/Hispanic communities. Interviews were conducted over the telephone and lasted an average of 27 minutes.

The average age of the respondents was just under 46 years. Self-reported income put 29 percent in the low-income category, 26 percent in the moderate-income category and 35 percent in the high-income category.

Just under 10 percent were receiving Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF).

The team found that, compared to people with higher incomes, those with lower incomes held similar values toward marriage and were less likely to approve of divorce.

However, lower income respondents were more likely than were higher income respondents to value the economic aspects of marriage, including the husband and wife having good jobs.

“Prompted by the belief that the institution of marriage is in crisis among the poor, the federal government has spent 1 billion dollars on initiatives to strengthen marriage among low-income populations,” Benjamin Karney said.

“Often these are based on the assumption that there must be something wrong with how people on low incomes view marriage or that they just are not very good at managing intimate relationships,” he said.

Vivek concluded by giving an overview of the study and its findings.

“We found that people with low incomes value marriage as an institution, have similar standards for choosing a marriage partner and experience similar problems with managing their relationships,” Trail said.

“We suggest that initiatives to strengthen marriage among the poor should also take social issues into account, as they can place a tremendous amount of stress on a marriage,” he added.

The study has been published in the Journal of Marriage and Family.